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I do a lot of varied work in grassroots organizing, public policy advocacy, and writing focused on disability justice, intersectionality, and activism. (Here's a link to my full "professional"-seeming bio.) Right now, I'm the chairperson of the Massachusetts Developmental Disabilities Council (which makes me seem a lot more professional than I probably actually am) while suffering through a special hell known generally to the public as law school (which is definitely a privilege that I'm there, but doesn't make it suck less), and pulling together the first-ever anthology by autistics of color with E. Ashkenazy and Morénike Giwa Onaiwu at the Autism Women's Network. I've worked with a lot of other orgs in the past (and actually still do), but I also do a shitton of work outside those formal channels.* I care about intersectional social justice, because I believe absolutely that justice must be for everyone, not just us.

And just because most people ask, the blog name "Autistic Hoya" comes from where I went to college, where students/athletes/alumni are known as Hoyas. Blame a bunch of Latin/Greek nerds.

Outside my work in radical disability justice and disability policy, I write literary fiction and do text-based roleplay/collaborative writing. I am particularly fond of making my characters' lives suck, and in fact, I teach crash courses on how to make write angst, grimdark, and bleak with a character-driven bent. I'm also very much interested in and passionate about Sufi music and Ethiopian food.

I am proud to have a fantastic partner, Shain M. Neumeier, a fellow autistic activist/attorney who blogs at Silence Breaking Sound, and is mostly known in autistic/neurodiversity community for their work at the intersection of youth, disability, and queer/trans rights and justice. You can learn pretty much everything else you need to know about me (and Shain) from this video. (Complete visual and audio transcription in the description.) Through my family (both chosen and of origin), I am the occasional human companion to a number of kitties and doges, who are all amazing floofs and online casino australia no deposit casino for tablet slot machine repair toledo ohio games foxy casino slots california

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  1. Hi Lydia, You don't know me, I'm a blogger and I've read some of your stuff (and I'm think highly of it). I'm originally from a small country town in Australia. A representative of an American organisation called Grafton Integrated Health Network that offers "solution focused opportunities for individuals challenged by complex disabilities" has gotten to know our community and wants to bring their not-for-profit services to our town. Our town is desperate for services and feel honoured to be considered by them. My sister who still lives there has been asked to join the committee and asked my opinion on the organisation (because I have autism and might be able to offer a unique insight or further understanding). Even though their website seems to read well (, they are in America and I wouldn't know where to start with determining if they really are disability friendly in practice. Could you please tell me if you have heard of them and share anything about them that might be important for our community to know? Thank you so much for your time. Rachel

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      So, yes, one can say that I'm really happy this morning; not even to mention how much I appreciate prominent bloggers who stay kind despite their exposure in media and respond to people at this pace. Whoa. Thank you. :)

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    My name is Susan and I am the content manager of, a US based online publication. I came across your blog and really enjoy the content you have on your site. We would like to discuss a potential collaboration with you. Would you be able to talk to us on Thursday via Skype? If so, I am available at

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    Therefore, as a fellow young queer autistic depressed guy from a low income single parent mental illness family, i would really appreciate it if you could acknowledge the fact that you do have significant elements of privilege as well as significant barriers of oppression. I believe that it is very important that people who are oppressed but also experience privilege acknowledge and continually challenge their privilege and maybe even share their privilege with less privileged people (give people who cant drive rides, hang out with other autistic people who have no social connections, etc).

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